It also impacts things like your emotional intelligence and your decision making. You also perceive the world differently. Stress makes us narrowly focused, preventing us from seeing the bigger picture. In fact, we literally see more things. In one study , participants went through a three-month meditation training.

They then engaged in something called the attentional blink task, in which you watch images appear rapidly one after another.

But after that mindfulness training, participants were able to pick up more of the target images than pre-retreat—suggesting that their state of mind had become more attentive. High stress and anxiety or any kind of negative emotion make us self-focused, for an evolutionary reason: When our ancestors were stressed, it was because they were in a survival situation.

It was good to be focused on yourself so you could save your life. Calm helps you focus on what you need to do and get it done much more quickly. Calmness can also impact your creativity. Indeed, people who go on an immersive nature retreat for four days come back with 50 percent increased creativity.

We know how to become stressed. Most of us are really good at activating our adrenal system and getting wound up. The question becomes, then, how do you wind down? Research suggests several practices that not only feel good but also put us into a calmer, more relaxed state—a state from which we can cope better with whatever life throws at us.

Jake, who appears in my book The Happiness Track , was a U. Marine officer in charge of a Humvee on a convoy across Afghanistan, when his vehicle drove over an improvised explosive device.

After the explosion, he looked down and saw that his legs were severely fractured below the knee. In that moment of shock, terror, and pain, he remembered a breathing exercise that he had read about for extreme wartime situations.

It allowed him to do his duty, which was to check on everyone else in the vehicle. It gave him the presence of mind to give orders to call for help, and to then tourniquet his own legs and prop them up before he fell unconscious—which saved his life. Our breathing is a powerful way for us to regulate our emotions, and it is something we take for granted.

Through your breath, you can activate your parasympathetic nervous system—the calming response in your body. The veterans were skeptical, but we began teaching them different breathing exercises. Using your breath, you can change how you feel.

In another study , researchers observed people feeling different emotions and found that there was a different pattern of breath for each one.

One of the most calming breathing exercises you can do is to breathe in e. You can gently constrict your throat, making a sound like the ocean, which is used in deep relaxation breathing. Often we are our worst critic. In fact, according to a good deal of research , self-criticism destroys our resilience.

Self-critical people tend to have greater anxiety and depression, and an inability to bounce back from struggles. Imagine someone running a marathon for the very first time in their life, and they trip and fall.

What are you doing here? Go home. Self-compassion is the ability to be mindful of your emotions—aware of the emotions that are going on inside whenever you fail at something. And it is the ability to speak to yourself the way you would speak to a friend who just failed, warmly and kindly.

When we adopt this attitude, research suggests, we are calmer—we have less feelings of stress as well as lower cortisol levels. How often are we actually present for another person percent?

Do you feel your breathing quicken because your heart rate has risen? Take a sip of water and work on slowing your breath.

Excuse yourself from tense situations. If things feel uncomfortable and you have a chance to remove yourself from the drama, do so. Use the bathroom, go outside for a brisk walk or take a moment for yourself to breathe and check in with your emotions. Exercise your right to say no.

You do not have to do anything that drains your energy. If your time is finite, it only makes sense that you do what builds you up not what exhausts you. Move your body with intention. Physical activity helps you produce endorphins, the feel-good chemicals in the brain.

Use scent to engage your senses and remind you of fond memories. The relaxing smell of lavender helps ease tense muscles. It reminds you of nature and the beloved sachet your grandmother gave you for your linen drawer.

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Here are some of the ways you can create a sense of calm and well-being wherever you go: 1. Share this post.

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What you think and how you think determines your behaviour to build clarity and peace by calming the mind from anxiety about the future. Alter your attitude. Fixed mindsets tend to harbor negative, pessimistic, and no-can-do attitudes.

Kick those thoughts out now. The power of positive, optimistic thinking where you can see challenges as opportunities can instantly shift your mood and can also inspire others. Ask for constructive feedback. A growth mindset proactively sources out feedback from peers, friends, and leadership.

This provides an opportunity to learn from mistakes, find alternatives and place efforts into skills that will help in the long run. Each day, identify at least one person, pet, or thing that enriches your life.

Write your thoughts down in a journal. When you find yourself unhappy, take a moment to review your entries and think about all the good things in your life. You can also do this to others. Random acts of kindness through actions and words can bring support into your life when you need it also; t he more you put out in the world for others, the more you will receive in return.

Empathy is a powerful word encapsulating the ability to care about others. Learning to empathize with others allows us to become less judgmental, less frustrated, angry, or disappointed—and we develop patience.

Ask yourself: Do I need this now? Wait a few days and see if the urge to buy it dissipates. Meaningful conversations.

Walking in nature. Reading a good book in a library. A trip to the beach. These things are all free and can often offer more joy than more expensive endeavours. Smile- the universal symbol of happiness. Receiving a smile from a stranger or friend brings you instant feelings of joy and pleasure.

Smiles are contagious and are the only thing we want to spread. Research shows that when you smile, your brain releases tiny molecules called neuropeptides to help fight off stress. Then other neurotransmitters like dopamine, serotonin and endorphins come into play too; acting like a mild pain reliever and the serotonin is an antidepressant.

Creating your smile jar even if you have to write it on bits of paper to remind you such as that friend who makes you laugh, funny movies, podcasts, and if you are game, go to a laughing yoga class. True contentment is a deep-seated sense of accepting who and where you are at any given moment.

Creation may take discipline and habit formation, but it will bring true value into your life. Bringing more calm, contentment and clarity in our every day. I paint joyful florals and vibrant landscapes to bring you closer to nature.

Science has shown we're better off after spending time in nature, whether that be real or perceived. Bringing its peace and beauty into your space with a painting is a perfect way to get your fix when you can't be there in life!

Capturing a sense of Calm. Have you ever thought about what viewing art does to your mind or body?

Meaningful conversations. Walking in nature. Reading a good book in a library. A trip to the beach. These things are all free and can often offer more joy than more expensive endeavours. Smile- the universal symbol of happiness. Receiving a smile from a stranger or friend brings you instant feelings of joy and pleasure.

Smiles are contagious and are the only thing we want to spread. Research shows that when you smile, your brain releases tiny molecules called neuropeptides to help fight off stress. Then other neurotransmitters like dopamine, serotonin and endorphins come into play too; acting like a mild pain reliever and the serotonin is an antidepressant.

Creating your smile jar even if you have to write it on bits of paper to remind you such as that friend who makes you laugh, funny movies, podcasts, and if you are game, go to a laughing yoga class.

True contentment is a deep-seated sense of accepting who and where you are at any given moment. Creation may take discipline and habit formation, but it will bring true value into your life.

Bringing more calm, contentment and clarity in our every day. Dr Natalie Flatt Ph. Founder of Connect Psych Services. Surrender to what is. Let go of what was.

Have faith in what will be -Sonia Ricotti Surrendering to what is allows you to fully experience the present moment, no matter what emotions. Letting go of what was provides room for self-compassion to move into the future without guilt. Having faith in what will be allows for processing through growth mindset, gratitude and simplification fuelled by boundaries, values, and healthy habits.

Become mindful. Find your quiet time. Let go of toxic relationships. Forgive yourself for past mistakes. Talk to others. Have faith in what will be. Build a growth mindset. Build your gratitude. Get in touch today. Contact us. Self-compassion is the ability to be mindful of your emotions—aware of the emotions that are going on inside whenever you fail at something.

And it is the ability to speak to yourself the way you would speak to a friend who just failed, warmly and kindly. When we adopt this attitude, research suggests, we are calmer—we have less feelings of stress as well as lower cortisol levels.

How often are we actually present for another person percent? When was the last time somebody was percent present with you, even your spouse? We know that those feelings of loneliness are extremely destructive to our body and mind, leading to worse health and even earlier death.

Our greatest human need, after food and shelter, is to connect with other people in a positive way. And when we fulfill that need, it brings us more calm: The oxytocin and natural opioids that we release when we connect may exert a calming influence on our bodies, and the knowledge that we have the support of others can soothe our minds.

When we face adversity, research suggests that our relationships and community have an important role to play in our resilience. The good news is that by taking care of yourself and your own well-being with practices like breathing and self-compassion, you are able to turn more attention outward to feel more connected, as well.

Positive emotions like calm naturally make us feel closer to other people. You can try specific practices that research has found to boost your sense of connection, as well. Compassion for others. What happens to your state of mind in that moment? That is what practicing altruism, service, and compassion does to your life.

It increases your well-being tremendously, as many of us have experienced when we perform little acts of kindness. When we feel compassion , our heart rate goes down and our parasympathetic nervous system is more activated.

Kindness and compassion can also help protect us from adversity. In one of my favorite studies , researchers found that people who had been through traumatic life situations had a shorter lifespan. But among these participants, there was a small group of people who just seemed to keep on living.

What was going on with these people? When the researchers dug a little deeper, they found that they were all engaged in helping friends and family in their life—from assisting with transportation or shopping to housework and child care. Service is one of the most profound ways to nourish the community around you, but also to nourish, inspire, and energize yourself.

The Center is dedicated to building a better world by pioneering the science of thriving organizations. Emma Seppälä, Ph. Become a subscribing member today. This can be different for different artists — joy, excitement, peace, calm, dreamy mysteriousness and so on. Because I benefit from the peace of the outdoor scenes that I spend time in, and want you to experience that too.

Re-creating landscapes through vibrant paint and captivating marks, is my way of bringing you into them. Think about the last time you viewed a painting that really captured you… Did you pause for a moment to fully absorb?

How did you feel after?

As so often with mindful practices, the more you meditate, the easier it becomes to practice. Your brain gets accustomed to meditating and looks forward to the feel-good surge in chemicals provided via its reward center.

As Dr. Dan Siegel says, when you meditate, you're creating a state, that over time becomes a trait. You can engage in meditation in several ways.

Pick the one that feels right for you. One method is to sit comfortably in a quiet place, close your eyes, and follow your breathing pattern. When your mind wanders, return it to your breath.

Don't beat yourself up when your mind strays. It's normal for the most accomplished of meditators to encounter intrusive thoughts much of the time. Practice patience when this happens and tell yourself it's not a problem whatsoever.

Benefits come from learning how to train and stabilize your attention by returning your thoughts to your object of attention again and again.

It will get easier, and your anxiety will decline and calmness will increase. Apps like Ten Percent Happier, Insight Timer or Calm can help as they have so many guided meditations that can structure your meditation and remind you to guide your attention back.

Check your mindset often throughout the day It's helpful to monitor your mindset often. Otherwise, you may slip into anxiety mode without recognizing your mood has dipped. If you catch your disposition at the start of a downward spiral, you can stop it from plummeting.

Check in with your thoughts now and then. Are they negative? If so, take steps to ease them. Or shift your point of focus entirely to a practical task or preferable topic, a type of attention regulation. Practice gratitude Gratitude wires your brain for joy.

It gets you used to spotting what's great about life, as opposed to what's wrong. Keep a gratitude journal and write in it once a day. Or make a mental list of things to be thankful about whenever you've a spare moment. When an ad comes on, when you're standing in line, for instance, or while you wait for the kettle to boil, bring to mind what makes your life happier, more comfortable, or more wonderful.

Keep an anxiety insight journal Self-awareness can empower you to overcome nervousness. Note events that frequently trigger your anxiety. When you understand what they are, take steps to ameliorate your reaction. If you recognize long car journeys worry you, for instance, think of ways to induce calm while you travel.

Light music that uplifts might help. Or sniffing an essential oil that calms the mind, like lavender oil, may do the trick. Acknowledge anxiety-triggering events and work to lessen their impact on your mental health.

You'll learn to associate them with more ease and they'll stop activating fight or flight. Adopt a wind down routine in the evening Reduce evening and nighttime anxiety by engaging in a wind down routine.

The brain associates pleasant routines with stability. They make you feel more secure and can reduce anxiety. As a bonus, winding down every evening will prepare you to sleep well.

It's a good idea to dim the lights and lessen activity that stimulates your brain as the evening progresses. Calming practices, like bathing, listening to gentle music, sleep meditations and reading will help you relax.

Relax with guided imagery before you sleep People with anxiety often worry at night and find it hard to sleep. If you are prone to going over problems when you go to bed, adopt a fresh habit that encourages restful sleep. Picture a beautiful place you would like to visit, or somewhere you've already been and love.

Sometimes a guiding tool can make it easier to let go of distressing thoughts. Why not give meditation for peace of mind a try? Some of the many potential benefits of this ancient Hindu practice include increased self-awareness , reduced stress, and positive brain changes.

Evidence suggests mindfulness meditation , in particular, can promote greater awareness of the present moment, whether it brings joy or pain. In general, it helps you cope with emotional distress. Mindfulness makes up an important part of Buddhist meditation.

Buddhism itself holds inner peace as an essential aspect of well-being. In Buddhism, though, this ultimate goal does reflect a type of inner calm — the peace that arises in the absence of suffering and desire. Both focused meditation and increased mindfulness can indirectly help you acknowledge, accept, and let go of the physical and emotional distress that might otherwise stir the waters of your mind.

With a regular meditation practice, this acceptance can go a long way toward promoting lasting mental peace. While too much time alone can lead to loneliness, spending just the right amount of time on your own could benefit your well-being and lead to finding peace in a frantic world.

Solitude offers the chance to:. Any of these activities can boost peace of mind in daily life by helping you recharge, relax, and focus on your personal needs.

Maybe an English teacher assigned daily journal entries. You completed the exercise grudgingly at first, but with more enthusiasm and commitment once you realized putting your feelings on paper did, in fact, provide you with a different perspective.

Journaling can help you process and express emotions you might otherwise keep inside. But you might find that committing them to paper helps ease some of their emotional weight and transforms inner peace from an exception to more of a rule. Do you head for the trees or the seas when you need some rest and respite from the daily grind?

An abundance of research backs up your instincts: Natural environments, green spaces in particular, can ease emotional distress and foster feelings of inner calm and peace of mind. Spending time in nature can help you have peace of mind by:.

Tip: No matter what you choose to do, consider leaving your phone at home or powered down in your backpack if on a hike. A constant stream of notifications or the urge to refresh your social media feeds can quickly chip away at your newfound calm.

Working on finding peace of mind can help you weather the changing seas of life with more resilience and emotional fortitude. While greater mental and emotional peace is possible for anyone, it may not happen overnight. Offering yourself kindness and compassion along the way — while remembering that patience also plays an important part — can make all the difference.

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