Mindful eating is an effective way to improve your relationship with food and is associated with psychological well-being. Mindful eating is about pausing before eating to fully explore what is needed at that moment. Is it food? If so, what type of food? If not food, what will meet this need?

It takes patience and time to learn to be a mindful eater. We know that emotional and physical hunger can be very different things. But making sure you are getting enough to eat is an important background habit.

Our brains are wired to make sure we eat enough for survival. Many people find that eating a variety of foods with their meals is the most satisfying.

You can experiment to see what meals are most filling for you. If you find that you are often physically hungry during the day, adding more protein may help. Protein sources may keep you feeling fuller for longer.

It can take some practice to start to notice what physical hunger and fullness actually feel like. Being aware of physical hunger cues can help you notice when you are eating for emotional reasons.

Some signs of physical hunger include :. Level one is extreme hunger. You may feel physically unwell, weak, and ready to grab anything that might be edible.

Ten is extreme fullness, like after a giant holiday meal. Make a point to check in with yourself every few hours and ask yourself what your hunger level is. This can help you to notice your natural patterns of hunger and fullness. As you get more practice, you may start to notice some of the early signs of hunger.

It can also help you identify when you feel like eating but are not physically hungry. Resist isolation in moments of sadness or anxiety. Those are tough feelings to navigate on your own. Even a quick phone call to a friend or family member can do wonders for your mood. There are also formal support groups that can help.

One self-reported pilot study found that social support and accountability helped the participants better adhere to eating-related behavior change. Overeaters Anonymous is an organization that addresses overeating from emotional eating, compulsive overeating, and eating disorders.

You can explore their website to see if this feels like it would be a good fit for you. Look for a dietitian with experience supporting people with emotional or disordered eating. They can help you identify eating triggers and find ways to manage them. A mental health professional can help you find other ways to cope with difficult emotions as you move away from using food.

They often use cognitive behavioral therapy CBT. CBT for emotional eating often includes behavioral strategies, such as eating regular meals at a planned time. Scheduling your meals can help curb physical hunger.

The sense of feeling full may also help curb emotional hunger. Some research calls this the cold-hot empathy gap. Whereas in the hot state, you overestimate how hungry you actually are emotional eating.

In one study , meal planning was linked with food variety, diet quality, and less obesity. Instead, consider building a weekly meal plan that includes breakfast, lunch, dinner, and a snack. Then, decide what time you will eat each meal. For instance:. If you experience an intense desire to eat, think about your next scheduled meal.

It may only be a half hour away. Ask yourself if you can wait to eat. Try not to schedule meals too close to bedtime, and keep all of your meals within a hour window , like a. to p.

This means you should eat a meal about every 3 hours. If possible, give food your full attention when you eat. This can increase the enjoyment you get from the food. When you are distracted, you are also more likely to eat faster. One behavioral strategy mental health professionals use to cope with this conditioning is stimulus control.

Stimulus control works by changing your food cues. Positive self-talk and self-compassion are more tools to use on your journey to managing emotional eating. It has been shown to improve healthful eating.

Try to become more aware of the stories you are telling yourself. It may be helpful to write down some of the repeated negative thoughts you are having.

Get curious about where these thoughts might be coming from. Once you are more aware of all the negative thoughts that show up, you can start to work on changing them. Make notes on how you could change the way you talk to yourself.

Consider how you would talk to a dear friend and use that language with yourself. Food may feel like a way to cope but addressing the feelings that trigger hunger is important in the long term.

Work to find alternative ways to deal with stress, like exercise and peer support. Consider mindfulness practices. Change is hard work, but you deserve to feel better. Before eating, take a moment to look at and smell your food.

Also, spend some time reflecting on where your food came from and how it was grown and prepared. While eating the meal, focus on what each element tastes like in your mouth and savour each bite.

Are there certain textures or flavours which pair well together? You could also try dimming one of your senses to heighten the others while you eat a particular food. For example, you could blindfold yourself or close your eyes while you enjoy a piece of chocolate or a scoop of ice cream.

This activity can make your other senses, like taste and smell, much more engaged, which means you enjoy the chocolate more and feel more satisfied afterwards.

The next step is to take time to eat your meal. Often we eat food on the go or in a hurry while focusing on something else.

At each meal:. Concentrate entirely on your food; even if you feel your mind wandering, carry on. Now try and tell the story of why this happened. What caused you to go off track? What did you struggle with or find challenging? Why was it hard to restart?

Now that you have this information, you can start to develop a plan to stop these scenarios from happening in the first place. Try to write down a complete list of all the possible scenarios you foresee as a potential challenge.

Research has also shown that the best tasks to take your mind off food are cognitively challenging ones. This means going for a walk, meditation, or bath may not be effective ways to distract yourself.

However, something that engages your brain can be a better distractor, such as:. This can foster a negative relationship with food and create an ongoing cycle of comfort eating. Instead, there should be foods we enjoy every day and foods we enjoy less often. Generally, strict rules tend to have the opposite effect of making us crave these foods even more, causing feelings of guilt or shame if we break one of these rules.

Every one of us will have different triggers for emotional eating. Likewise, we need an individualised approach to feeling in control of our emotions. The Second Nature programme teaches you to enjoy food mindfully without counting numbers, calories, or fixating on weight. Gayle Munnings.

I get distracted at meal times an am my own worst enemy. io with any questions. I really enjoy my food, but have never taken 20 minutes to eat even when I have purposefully tried to eat slowly! I think if I took 20 minutes to eat my meal it would be cold by the time I finished!

I can see a benefit in avoiding distractions while eating though. Ann Brown. I am someone who skips meals and finds that my evening meals are rushed due to hunger. I think focusing on an activity after tea would definitely help me, stop me reaching for the biscuits. Tina Holliland. To learn more, you can take our health quiz here , or email support secondnature.

io with any questions 🙂. Ann Fitzpatrick. Sounds great, please do let us know how you get on and if you have any questions about this strategy 🙂.

Our programme also provides many other tools to help you overcome emotional eating. Our programme includes many other tips and tricks for overcoming emotional eating. I shall also try the 20 20 20 rule. I find it helpful to have a protein snack near if I still fancy something sweet after a meal.

Our programme includes many other tips and tricks for improving mindfulness and overcoming emotional eating. Our programme provides many other tools for overcoming emotional eating.

Tracey Adams. Very interesting I will try the 20 20 20 rule , also not switch the tv on when I sit down too eat which is normally the case 😱.

Let us know how you get on with these new tools 😊. Our programme provides many other tips and tricks to help you overcome emotional eating habits. io with any questions 😊. Nick Webster. Kind regards.

Chris Gibbs. Sheena Kirkham. io with any questions! Thanks for this article Tamara. How interesting that cognitive activities are more effective at distraction from cravings then going for a walk or taking a bath! That explains a lot. Our programme includes an interactive video catalog with different strategies to overcome emotional eating.

Our programme will offer further support to overcome emotional eating. Clare Scott. Informative interesting article. Maybe thats why so called, slimming clubs go one for years. Syns, treats, good ,bad! At the end of the day, its how we perceive it. Our programme offers many other tools and tricks to overcome emotional eating.

Lesley Beaton. Our programme will provide plenty of other tools for mindfulness and overcoming emotional eating.

io 🙂. Loraine White. Janet Porter. I was interested in the rule, I would have always been a fast eater so I am going to slow down and enjoy my food!

Our programme will offer many other tools to improve mindfulness. Interesting article with solid advice. Our programme will help you continue to develop a toolbox to identify triggers and overcome emotional eating.

I have read through this article and found it helpful especially the mindfulness part of it as I find it hard to focus sometimes due to my mental health conditions so thank you for the information I will come back to it whenever I feel any doubtful thoughts 😊.

Louise Ruming. This is a very good detailed article. In particular I liked the 20 20 20 framework which I have not seen before. Thank you. Interesting to learn what emotional and mindful eating is! Slow down and smell the coffee I guess Carmel.

Pauline mills. Hi Pauline, please email support secondnature. io to request our free 5-day plan 🙂. Kirsty Wilson. Very informative.

Gives a good perspective on this and I resonated well with it all. I hope this makes me make better choices and not feel guilty. It makes sense. Alison Cooper. Thank you for this as it has been interesting reading.

To slow down when coming to a meal in general and trying to enjoy my food. I do suffer with emotional eating and especially when having a tough day or things have gone wrong its easy to pick up the takeaway menu or go to the biscuit tin.

I am trying to learn to grab a piece of fruit instead. One is the rule and the other one is the cognitive challenges.

Rachel Hillhouse. This is a very helpful article. After reading this, I now realize that I have the ability to resist with the help of these strategies. Hi Rachel, so pleased to hear this article was helpful!

Heather Fangrow. This article really rang true for me and it was very helpful, I have struggled with emotional eating over my life, but I am already inspired to try some of the techniques suggested. Our programme will provide you with a toolbox for identifying triggers and helping you to overcome emotional eating habits.

Fore more information on our programme, please click here. Ana Amores. Interesting article. Preparing in advance for situations when I will feel cravings and have a plan of action to replace unnecessary eating with some other activity.

I can try it. Our programme will offer even more helpful tools for overcoming emotional eating. For more information, please click here 🙂. Karen Gregory.

heather norris. This article I know will help me. Angela Mckay. Barbara Howell. Very interesting article I have periods of binge eating and then feel really disappointed in my self and lack of control.

Brenda Gascoigne. Especially being prepared. Going to take some time to think about this. And the 29,20, Sally Broad. penny starr. Thanks, I particularly liked point 2 Be prepared.

Thinking about how I might feel in the future if I fail. For me this is the most thought provoking part of this article. Jackie davis. Thanks for this article. Some helpful tips. Definitely makes a difference. I do find that by eating slowly I am in tune with when I am full.

Carrot sticks are working for me as well for snacking. I have yet to find the best distraction strategy because this does work for mewhen i do become distracted from the craving, which usualy hits me late in the evening.

Tracey Austin. Louise Wood. I keep repeating the same bad habits then feel guilty. Very interesting to read and it certainly covered the reasons why I seem to be emotionally eating.

Very insightful and I hope the impact stays with me. Good article highlighting all the SN insights around emotional eating. Also maybe I will suggest taking a picnic and going for a walk now we have good weather.

I eat! Mary Moran. I liked the article a lot and what is very meaningful for me is developing the habit of mindful eating.

I have been practicing this and then unfortunately I notice how many people swallow or gobble or stuff their food and it kind of puts me off. Having a glass of wine ends up in eating anything sweet I can get my hands on. I need to practice mindful eating.

I have been crisis eating since I was 8. I only pressed stressed, but I eat when I am tired. Disappointed in procrastinating. Scared, over committed, so many reasons. Covid has made no difference to this.

Fiona Wilson. My weight has ballooned over the past year with covid lockdown too! Deirdre Moffat. I am starting the programme on Monday 7th June. I found that article extremely helpful. I have been emotionally eating for the past 18 months, since I began working from home hence huge weight gain.

I think being prepared and having a daily menu that includes snacks might help me. Patricia Hallahan. Hi Michelle, so pleased to hear this! Our programme will take a deeper look into emotional eating, our triggers, and how to build healthier habits. To learn more, please click here. Hi Michelle, so pleased to hear!

Our programme offers further support and insight into managing emotional eating. To learn more, you can take our health quiz here.

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What Is Emotional Eating? Physical Hunger vs. Emotional Hunger We're all emotional eaters to some extent who hasn't suddenly found room for dessert after a filling dinner?

Next time you reach for a snack, check in and see which type of hunger is driving it. Physical hunger: comes on gradually and can be postponed can be satisfied with any number of foods means you're likely to stop eating when full doesn't cause feelings of guilt Emotional hunger: feels sudden and urgent may cause specific cravings e.

Also ask yourself: Am I stressed, sad, or anxious over something, like school, a social situation, or at home? Has there been an event in my life that I'm having trouble dealing with? Am I eating more than usual? Do I eat at unusual times, like late at night?

Do other people in my family use food to soothe their feelings too? Breaking the Cycle Managing emotional eating means finding other ways to deal with the situations and feelings that make someone turn to food. Tips to Try Try these tips to help get emotional eating under control.

Explore why you're eating and find a replacement activity. Too often, we rush through the day without really checking in with ourselves. Pause before you reach for food.

Are you hungry or is it something else? For example: If you're bored or lonely: Call or text a friend or family member. If you're stressed out: Try a yoga routine or go outside for walk or run.

Or listen to some feel-good tunes and let off some steam by dancing around your room until the urge to eat passes. If you're tired: Rethink your bedtime routine.

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Copy Link Link copied! Download PDF. By Melinda Smith, M. The emotional eating cycle The difference between emotional hunger and physical hunger Identify your emotional eating triggers Find other ways to feed your feelings Pause when cravings hit and check in with yourself Indulge without overeating by savoring your food Support yourself with healthy lifestyle habits.

Are you an emotional eater? Do you eat more when you're feeling stressed? Do you eat when you're not hungry or when you're full? Do you eat to feel better to calm and soothe yourself when you're sad, mad, bored, anxious, etc.

Do you reward yourself with food? Do you regularly eat until you've stuffed yourself? Does food make you feel safe? Do you feel like food is a friend? Do you feel powerless or out of control around food? The difference between emotional hunger and physical hunger Before you can break free from the cycle of emotional eating, you first need to learn how to distinguish between emotional and physical hunger.

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The Food-Feeling Connection Food can put a damper on stressful feelings, though the effect is temporary. What Causes Emotional Eating Everyone has bad days, but not everyone uses food to get through them. If you have trouble managing your emotions, you may be more likely to use food for that purpose.

Being unhappy with your body may make you more prone to emotional eating. This goes for both men and women. Dieting can put you at risk. If you feel deprived of food, you may be frustrated and tempted to emotionally eat. What you can do Observe yourself.

Do you eat when you feel angry, depressed, hurt, or otherwise upset? Do you eat in response to certain people or situations? Do certain places or times of day trigger food cravings?

You might: Take a class or read a book on managing stress. Talk about your feelings with a close friend. Go for a walk to clear your head. Your emotions might lose their force with time and space.